Changing your mind about a candidate
Updated 1 October 2026 · Markdown version
Every decision is corrected with its opposite
There's nothing to undo: every card you've already decided on offers you the opposite decision, in a single tap.
- You discarded it and regret it → "I'm interested".
- You liked it (the card says "Sent") and you're no longer interested → "Discard".
- You have a match and nobody has written yet → "Discard".
- You said "No agreement" → "We have an agreement".
Where there's no way back, the card shows no button and explains why in a sentence.
If you discarded: you have 7 days
When you discard a card (swiping it left or with the "Discard" button), it leaves your main list. It isn't lost: you'll find it under "View N decisions already made", the last button in your board's bar, which gathers what you sent and what you discarded. There, each discard says how long it has left ("Can be recovered for N more days") and offers you "I'm interested", as does its full profile.
- Coming back is a like like any other: you need a verified identity (how it works), and if the other person had already said yes to you, it's a match.
- After the 7 days, the discard is archived and the card stops showing on your board.
- Discarding doesn't notify anyone. If there was no match, the card simply disappears from the other person's board.
- If the other person discarded you too, there's no way back: the card says so ("You both passed. There's no way back from here.") and offers no button.
If you liked it or you already have a match
- "Sent" — your like is waiting for a reply. If you change your mind, tap "Discard".
- Match with no messages — also "Discard", and it's the only case where the app asks you to confirm ("End your match with…?"), also if you swipe the card, because the other person will see it on their card. For 7 days you can say "I'm interested" again, and the match comes back.
Once the conversation has started, the way out is closing it
As soon as a match's chat has its first message, it can no longer be discarded: that would close the conversation for both of you without explanation. Instead, the card offers "We have an agreement" and "No agreement", the proper way to end a conversation, with or without a deal (swiping the card opens them too: right for "We have an agreement", left for "No agreement").
If you closed with "No agreement" and regret it, while the "Ended" card is still on your board it lets you change it to "We have an agreement" (only the person who closed it) — agreements and closing conversations.
And for serious cases you have "Block" and "Report" in the three-dot menu (⋮) of the card and of the full profile — how they work.
If the price drops, it can come back
A listing you discarded comes back on its own to your "to decide" queue if its price really drops. It's the only thing that reopens a discard, and it works whether the card is still on your board or was already archived.
When it comes back
- Only the price, and only downwards: at least 10% below the best you already rejected. It isn't compared with yesterday's price, but with the lowest one you already said no to. If a flat at €1,000 drops to €900, it comes back; if it drops to €950, it doesn't.
- Dropping, raising and dropping again to the same price brings nothing back. We remember the best you rejected, so the same old price doesn't count as news however much it moves around.
- Nothing else reopens it: not the dates, not the rooms, not the floor area, not the photos, not the title or the description.
- It only happens with listings, which are the only things with a price. If what you discarded was someone's search profile, it doesn't come back on its own.
- It still has to fit you. If you've changed your criteria and the listing no longer matches your search, it doesn't come back.
- It doesn't come back if you asked "Don't suggest this to me again", or if there's a block between the two of you.
How it comes back
Quietly: you get no notification. The next time you look at your candidates, it reappears in your "to decide" queue with the context in front of you, so you know in one second why you have it again:
You discarded this listing on 3 March · The price dropped from 1,050 € to 850 €
It isn't a fresh suggestion: it's your same card, reopened, and you decide again with "I'm interested" or "Discard".
How to stop it for good: "Don't suggest this to me again"
On that same card, next to the context, you have "Don't suggest this to me again". One tap does both things: it discards the card and no price drop will ever bring it back, however big.
- It's a preference of yours: it isn't a block or a report, and the other person gets no notification.
- It can be corrected while the card is still on your board (7 days): if you tap "I'm interested" on it, the mark is removed.
- After that it's permanent, because the card has been archived.
You can set the same mark when you close a conversation with "No agreement", with the checkbox in its dialog — agreements.
If what you want is to stop seeing anything from that person — not that listing and not the others — that's a different thing: it's called blocking, and it's explained in stop seeing someone.
Discarding it again raises the bar
If the card comes back and you're still not interested, discard it again as usual: it costs you nothing. From then on the bar goes up: next time the price would have to drop another 10% from the new price. Every return demands a real drop, bigger than the last one, so this can't turn into pestering.
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